How Filipinos Welcome the “Ber” Months

In the Philippines, the “ber” months signal the start of the holiday season. You’ll hear festive songs (particularly ones by Jose Mari Chan) in shopping malls as early as September. Many households will be adorned with bright and colorful decor by then, too.

Family-oriented Filipinos welcome the “ber” month season with optimism and gratitude. These months offer more opportunities to reunite with loved ones, share meals, and create new memories. With all that and more to anticipate, you might feel inspired to start your celebrations early. Here are some simple ways to start and ignite your Christmas spirit!

How to Welcome the “Ber” Months, According to Filipinos

1. Decorate a little at a time.

For many traditionalists, it’s not truly Christmas until all the lights, wreaths, and baubles are up. But it can be overwhelming to doll up your house in one weekend. Instead, you should relish the process by putting up decorations slowly but surely. You can combine old, sentimental trinkets with any trendy pieces you might find in malls or bazaars. Not only will this ease the stress of decorating, but it will also keep your look fresh until Christmas.

2. Start planning your vacations.

Some say that the best part about vacations is planning them. Whether your next trip is three months or a whole year away, it’s never too soon to get excited. Involve your family from the start so everyone can dream about your getaway together. Fixing your itinerary early helps hash out details and reduce stress later, so you can fully enjoy your leisure time.

3. Indulge in seasonal treats.

The holidays wouldn’t be complete without kakanin and other comforting goodies. It’s the only time of year when you’ll find vendors selling bibingka, puto bumbong, and roasted chestnuts wherever you go – from midnight markets to churches. Take advantage of the influx and indulge in as many of these treats as your tummy desires. ‘Tis the season!

4. Shop for gifts ahead of the rush.

Don’t wait until the last minute to complete your gifts! Shopping in advance is a surefire way to get you in the holiday mood. Plus, it will help you beat the rush and give you more time to find heartfelt presents for everyone on your list. You can also do this for shelf-stable ingredients you’ll need for Christmas, like macaroni or cake flour. You might even snag early bird discounts before retailers hike up prices.

5. Tune in to holiday specials.

As the weather becomes chilly, it’s time to cozy up with a cup of cocoa and do a holiday-themed movie marathon. So what if it’s only September? Streaming services allow you to watch your favorite films and shows whenever, so go for it! You can’t go wrong with kid-friendly favorites Home Alone and How the Grinch Stole Christmas or rom-com classics like Love Actually. Christmas specials always encourage family bonding and togetherness!

6. Reunite with family and friends.

This time of year also means getting together with loved ones you haven’t seen in a while. Some have balikbayan relatives flying in from abroad. Others have yearly barkada reunions and parties with extended family. In any case, it's about having everyone in one place and making the most of these rare opportunities. Don't forget to play fun party games like Pinoy Henyo and serve dishes that offer a taste of home.

7. Cook extra special dishes.

If food is your love language, then maybe cooking throughout the holidays is your way to unwind. For some home cooks, this means whipping up their signature Christmas dishes like festive macaroni salad with Lady’s Choice Real Mayonnaise. Others feel motivated to try new recipes and make special meals that they’re usually too busy to make. When you have parties or reunions to cook for, the inspiration just comes.

8. Honor family members.

Right before Christmas, there’s Undas. This is when Filipinos visit the graves and offer prayers and food to honor the deceased. While this is a period of grief and mourning, it’s also a celebration of life. These traditions keep departed loved ones alive in your hearts and memories. Some families even include those they’ve lost in their holiday festivities. They’ll save a place for them at the table or give gifts on their behalf.

9. Eat out or order in more.

Treat yourself to meals from your favorite restaurants. Nothing beats home-cooked dishes, but the holidays also provide a chance to rest and indulge. Give yourself a break and let someone else cook for you this time. If you’re the type to save dining out for special occasions, this is your sign to make that reservation.

10. Make your own traditions.

There are many customs shared across Filipino families, from Undas to balikbayan reunions. But there’s always room to make new traditions that can be specific to yours. One example is sending out holiday photos to show how much you’ve all changed or grown in the last year. Another is to hold events that benefit charities instead of receiving gifts.

Some Filipino families host variety shows, where everyone gets to show off their unique talents. Others are comforted by a quiet Christmas, where all that’s needed is a warm, home-cooked meal. There are no rules, so feel free to do what makes you and your family happy. Now that the “ber” months are here, welcome the season with an open heart and surround yourself with those you love. That’s what the Christmas spirit is all about!